today in history :))

Itz 10.55pm at 10/11/2009..

Past this dayz, I have realized the people surrounding me... I find them pretty comfortable actually... I would rather not describe them but itz how I personally experienced myself with them.. They seem to be advising me, helping me out and even solving my problemz... I never had a chance like this before since I was the only one seem to be pleasing people for what they've wanted... Anywayz, I would just like to say that, no matter how we judge them, our judgement might be wrong as the proverb goes, "Dont Judge A Book By Itz Covers" :))

as tis is -jay- who writez..

Finally, back to basics.. : Im reborn..

At last, Im visiting my blog after so many months of delayed and buzy schedule.. As far until today, I've yet lead my life... Still surviving into the world full of changes, challenges.. The world has changed, people has changed... Without my notice, as I woke up one day, I felt like everything was changed.. Nothing is the same as I taught before.. Until today, I really, seriously, hardly cant cope myself with the change.. I sometimes have some weird feeling in me towards people, toward the world... Why do they have to act so strangely, why do they have to react towards the force, why they live a life full of fake... All this question runs in my mind.. But I was not like how I use to be now.. I too had to change and get myself adapted with the surroundings.. Thanks a lot to my mom... She helped me a lot in a way to realize things.. I guess this way of life is what the world prefers.. There's no more innocence in anything.. Its full of dirt, shit, pain, sufferings, and all together SIN.. I pray that there will be a day for all this which is called the Judgement Day... In this day, the whole world will pay for whatever has been done and over.. I have heard true stories and newz from people, nation and outsiders, itz that there is a place called the Mysterious World and itz in between the world of Heaven and the world of Hell... Its to be said that the sufferings in the Mysterious world is worsen than the world of Hell.. Im notsure of this but I learned that I have realised into things lately and dont wish to drag myself in pain no more... I had it enough.. I would be glad that someday people will come to a realization just like me to face the world.. Thats all I could say for today...




and tis is -jay- who writes..

Putrajaya: Floral Festival??... WOW! tell me about it....

Putrajaya: A boring place to be actually... xcept for those festive seasons during da independence day.. So it happens to b one month before the Malaysian Independence day, the floral festival will be going off and on for about a week... I took this chance to watch them for the first tyme..
MAN! they were damn amazing... The flowers were xploding... I was having a date with those flowers actually... hhehehheehe!

Well, I was planing to go watch the floral festival long tyme ago but kinda buzy wif stuff n so..
Even, many of them says tat itz a fun xperince watching the bloomed flowers n rare orkids which we watch them in tv's mostly but never had seen them personally...
Until yesterday, on the 06th August 2009, I took the chance to drive through Putrajaya wif my bro to watch it live for the first tyme... It was a sunny day and I was thinking twice about going there... I was juz wondering if I could manage myself walking in the hot sun..

I was kinda xcited too but I neva took the weather as a negative point... I yet managed myself to reach Putrajaya around 3pm... We were driving through the pathway as we saw the place frm a far distance.. As we were going through sum parking problums, a guy offered us to park for free if we took the other way... So we had to do sum turnings to go to the other end and parked our car there.. The place was kinda quiet infact... Once reached, I got my camera wif me n walked through the enterence, the welcoming enterence with a garden bunch full of flowers was really remarkable... I was really facinated with those colours n rare species of various funny flowers...

Well the colours of the flowers is sure to attract the tourist come visit Putrajaya for the floral festival every year.. With so many bunch of photohraphers from all around the world had their photoshot session at the festival.. Itz an amazing time with those flowers.. there were this funny lookin flower which my bro was really admiring it from the very first turn.. It looked like bottle shaped.. very quit as well.. we infact manage to snap a shot of it...

Not long after, we went into a place, so cold inside, sumthin like a flower storage built for the flowers to keep them in cool environment... I had a relief entering there.. kinda cold and comfortable.. Looking at creatures and animals created frm flowers amazed me wondering the talent of our local Malaysian... A bunch full of fresh red rose frm a vase was decorated and kept at the pathway to attract people's attention... I was really admiring the red colour of it.. there were even yellow rose, blue rose and pink rose all around...

After roses, we went out of the cool place as it was getting colder and colder... As soon as we reach out.. There were many stalls beside selling stuffs like Malaysian made n imported flowers which we could buy them in a negotiable price... Next, we visited the flower decoration n arrangementz frm the Universities and colleges.. As I saw, there were, Lim Kok Wing University, UiTM, UCSI n a few more other colleges..

Afta hanging around in the hot sun and lookin around the stalls, we managed to watch the garden decoration done by each state like Shah Alam frm MBSA, Kuala Lumpur frm DBKL, Putrajaya n many other official states... As it became hotter n hotter, we quit walking n head back home...
Before going home, I managed to enjoy my roti canai wif eva barlie n took the chance to watch a movie since Alamanda was juz around da corner...

As we head back home, it was almost 8pm late evening...
The day was such tat we neva noticed tat we are so tired of walking in the hot sun...
But we were really enjoying Putrajaya n Flowers...
n our next destination might b the Independence day Parade...

tis is -jay- sharing my stories..
have a gud day :)

mY lYfE in Kay Ell :-)

Date: 22 July 2009
Day: Wednesday

It all started in the morning... I was eventually having my final xzam on that day :)
Wow!.. tat sure makes me worried even now coz Im sure to do a last minute study n I can already describe my remarks before the college could publish them over the net.. Well, as I was not prepared to go for the xzam tat morning, I yet wokeup at 7.00am early... While preparing myself, I already got phone calls as usuall from my fwenzz... I knew what they wanted to say before I could answer the phone but yet I answered as the phone was ringing... They told me to fetch them later around 8.00am at their destination... So I went as they told, justa lil bit late half an hour...

As I fetched them, I rushed us straight to the campus as another frend of us was waiting in the campus since 7.00am earlier... She told us that the xzam was about to start and I was stuck in the heavy morning jam.. But we reached campus as soon as we could enter the hall...
While I was entering the hall, the xaminer stopped me n said to remove my stud as it was against the rulez in entering the xzam hall... I stare stupid at him as I was wordless and went out of the hall just to remove my stud... As I saw sum of ma fwenzz were also outside going through some other messed up rulez from our college.. (nONsEnSE La!)

Any how I got myself in the hall and pretend to be like nothin happened as I saw there were thousands of students in the hall looking at me in surprise... Well, mayb I was one of the most handsome once under the list, walking throught the red carpet... hAAHaahAAHahAHaha :-)
But yet I managed myself n got maself comfortable again... I rushed quickly to my seat as the paper was about to start.. When it was sharp 9.00am, the intructor gave some instruction over the rulezz n the papers n we managed to start answering them...

It was 3 hours paper actually and we'r supposed to freeze in the hall til 12pm answering the paper.. Tat was damn fuckin long hours just to sit in those freezing chair and answer the INUNDERSTANDABLE paper.. F!@#$ :( Well, I answered and got myself out of there around 10.30am I guezz... I juz dun wanna talk about xzams nomore as it frightens me.. Once I was out of the hall, I cleared myself and start breathing good country air... I was searching, searching for my fwenzz actually.. I was kinda xcited actually at tat tyme.. coz I really know wats gonna happened... Well, I managed to call up my fwenzz n asked wer they were... They told me to come to the Green Hse as they were waiting there for me..

As I went, they were all waiting there.. Talking, chatting n behaving rubbish.. I was damn hungry as I havent took my breakfast at all.. I went to my cafe and get myself a can of milo.. I taught I could finish the can to satisfy my hunger all by myself but eventually it was shareable by my fwenzz :( Nah! itz ok... I was really damn hungry n xcited too as I asked my fwenzz wen we will b leaving campus and lead an xcitement world... Actually, me and one of my frend suggested to lepak in Lim Kok Wing cafeteria to check out sum cool stuff there.. Then, there was tis frend of mine told tat b4 heading to KL, she wanna have a hot cup of goosips in the nearby mamak stall a.k.a Khulaffa...

We head up straight to KL afta ate breakfast.. I didnt ate any as I was so xcited to go to Lim Kok Wing cafeteria, so, I only took a can of 100plus... Then, around 12.00pm we left... There was a small worried in sum part of me telling tat I dunno the way to L.K.W but my frend beside me knew the place as she was assisting me on the road.. Im not really familiar with KL roads as for the kind information... Basically I grew myself in a remote island I guezz so... hhihihihihiii Well, we were managing ourself on the road juz to find the college... We kept on roaming the great Putrajaya with all kinda fuckin percintzz and roundiebotzz but yet couldnt find the perfect lane to go to L.K.W.. Tis was happening for the second time as we had the same problem earlier in A wedding trip to Rawang... :)

We was yet still roaming around and round, we even reached Alamanda but not L.K.W... I began to b frustrated at tat hours.. But yet to control myself is the best... As we couldnt stand the hunger and pain, we managed to pull over at Alamanda... Lepak there for hours just searchin for the ATM machine.. Just as I taught b4 tat Alamanda was a great shopping complex to roam with but it really sucks.. DAMN! :( There's no prepaid to topup, only one ATM machine was available where yiu need to cue up from a long fuckin line and hated the foods over there... I was really missing L.K.W.. The smell of it, the people all around, the designful cafeteria n all cool stuff... Gosshhhhhh...

Well, we had our time at the food court in Alamanda and wanted to have sum fun... So we suggested to hit the karaoke.. Guezz wat, we went and had a fun time there.. Itz real fun man! Wow! tats really xciting... Watching my talented frendzz on air.. hhahahhaaa.. We spend not much time there as we had to leave soon.. While leaving, each of ma frendz suggested me to send them back home to their places.. At first I felt like they were so self-centered n I was like a dumb ass being used by my frendzz since I own a car.. But I stopped as I taught for a minute, I shall help them out since they are counting on me...

But there were a small fear in me of getting myself back home all alone at night.. Im not kinda use to it though as I told one of my friend who wish to accompanny me back home.. I was really glad she told that.. So we started heading to Kajang where one of my frend is staying there.. We went to her hse as tis was ma first time going there... Visited her mum and drank black coffee, had our bestiieee time there :) Soon, we left and head back to KL... On our way to KL, our plan changed in the car at tat moment... My fwenzz wanted to go for a swim in one of my fwenzz, bf's Condominium... So we headed to Bangsar and managed to go to my fwenzz hse to get her swimsuit.. They begged me to swim but I refused to go as I was the driver, I fet really tired, fuckin tired... But yet I managed to drove them to the pool...

Condominium Villa was heaven.. I really had my fun time there... Especially the food, itz really amazing.. the taste still stands in my throat now.. As I watched my frendzz go for a swim, I went for my dinner at the cafe around there.. As I ordered Fried Bihun, I took my time to relax myself outside the bench with a table beside the pool.. the breezy night and bright star shining made my day really great.. Finally my dinner arrived, I took a spoon full and tasted it, damn, the taste was like heaven... I ate like nobody else, almost finished everything on plate which made my frenzz realise how hungry I was...

Soon as they finished swimming, we managed to leave the place of heaven.. It was around 11.00pm.. I sent my fwenzz back home to Bangsar and we wished guD byezz :) I headed back home with one frend left accompany me the whole day.. Wish thanks to her for spending the whole day with me.. Well, the karaoke, Alamanda, Condominiums and stuff was actually fun wen going new places and meeting new people during MY LIFE IN KL :)) tats all for now folks..

and tis is -jay- signing off now..
Take care and have a lovely day...

10 First-Date Mistakes :(

The best thing about bad dates is that we walk away with a great story, and little doubt that the perpetrator is not the person for us.

I was thinking about some of the common errors made on first dates. I came up with 10 common mistakes that could kill the chances for a second date:

Arriving Late

Even five minutes of lateness is inexcusable on the first date. People are already anxious on these excursions, so making someone wait and think more about everything is pretty rude. Seems like the trend in NYC is to be late for things regularly. On one date, I texted the girl and told her I was running late. She said she was too. We ended up just having the date ½ hour later than planned and technically no one was late because we were both ½ hour late together.

Wardrobe Malfunction

Make sure you cater what you wear to what you're doing. I try not to make a girl walk too much if she's in heels. Also, I've seen girls wear pearls and a nice blouse to trashy outdoor drinking events, or heels to sporting events.

Talking Politics or Religion

Staying away from debatable content is a good idea the first time out. It's fun to argue with your significant other, but I think it's important to reach a comfort level first. If you try to proselytize someone, or battle them over a hot topic like abortion, you may reach a point of no return.

Checking Out Other People

You'd think that no one would do this, but guys are always looking at waitresses, or other patrons when out. My one friend got in hot water because his date told me he made cat calls at other girls while on a date. Talk about a mistake!

Bringing Friends (Non Group Date)

If you bring friends along you look immature and insecure. You also throw the other person for a loop if they were expecting the date to be one-on-one. Make sure you establish that it is a one-on-one date, and follow the rules and show up alone.

Getting Too Drunk

Some people turn into a completely different person when they are drunk. Let the other person learn about you while you're sober, before you get wasted with them. Alcohol should be introduced into the relationship slowly, but if a drink or two takes the edge off, and wine adds romance it's fine. Just don't push it too far.

Being Too Aggressive

No one wants to deal with someone's wandering hands before they are ready. It is one of the best ways to creep someone out. Just because someone is getting dinner with someone once doesn't mean it's an invitation into the sack. It's best to be hands off on the first date.

Being Too Unaggressive

My friend Margaret warns me to be more aggressive all the time. She said that if I don't kiss someone at the end of a date, or make a move when they hop in my bed they will begin to think something's wrong with them, or that I'm not into them. Maybe that's true, but sometimes I am just being too safe so that I don't break the rule I just mentioned above.

Canceling at the Last Minute or Standing Someone Up

Canceling for a legitimate reason is fine, but respect your date's time so that they can plan their night without you. Canceling one hour before a date is not cool — most of the date prep has already started at this point. Standing someone up is so rude. What does it accomplish? If you change your mind, at least have the strength to just cancel. No need to make someone feel bad and waste their time just because you're too chicken to cancel the date.

Dominant Speaker

Try to breathe in between sentences, and don't talk too much. Give your date a chance to talk. Aren't you trying to get to know one another? And don't speak for that other person (i.e order for them at dinner) unless they invite you to help with their order.

Do you agree or disagree with any of these? Ever have these happen to you, or have you ever made these mistakes? Would you go on a second date after any of these mistakes? What would you add to this list?

n tis is -jay-...

gud luck guyzzz...

Dating Tips: Visual Deal-Breakers for Daters

Here are some elements that I should work on to look more "together":

#1 Dating Element: Posture

I walk around as if I'm auditioning for the lead role in a Nosferatu remake. My shoulders are rolled forward, and I'm hunched over. I can't tell whether I'm tired, too relaxed, or what. But there's one thing I do know, women like tall guys. I'm cheating myself with my bad posture. If I stand up straight, I'm 5'11" (well, 5'10 and .99999999 inches); nothing to write home about, but it is over the average for the American male (5'9"). I should take advantage of anything above average about me. Standing up straight will also make me look more confident.

#2 Dating Element: Holes

You've read about the moth holes in my clothes, but there are other places where holes pop up. Assuming that women don't notice my shoes is naive, considering their love of all things shoe-related. I get everything I can out of a pair of sneakers. Plus, I'm too lazy to go out and buy new ones. My current sneakers are literally wearing away to nothingness. I could act as a visual aid for one of those old guys telling stories about the Great Depression: "In my day we used cardboard boxes for shoes." My friend Margaret, the other day, stuck her finger into the bottom of my shoe and struck foot! She declared that my porous shoes were responsible for my bad luck with the ladies. If only it were that simple...

#3 Dating Element: Hair

This "hair" refers to cat hair. You know you're in trouble when someone takes a look at you and asks, "Do you have a cat?" I'm always running late, so I don't have time to apply the lint roller before I leave my apartment. Cat hair has a mind of its own and silently floats around and attaches itself to important spots on clothing.

#4 Dating Element: Fingernails

I chew my fingernails to the hilt. In addition to being a dirty habit, it makes my hands look terrible. My fingernails are so low that people sometimes cringe when they look at them and ask me how bad it hurts. We all know I'm an anxious person, but wearing that anxiety on the outside in the form of jagged, bleeding fingernails is not going to attract many women. I've been trying to kick the habit for awhile, and when I do maybe I'll look like I have my life together more... or at least I'll look like I'm not eternally nervous.

It never occurred to me that women might see me and think I don't care how I look, and then make the connection to me not caring how my apartment looks, and not caring about my life goals and aspirations. I've let my apathetic attitude permeate my appearance, and that's not good.

Things are going to change. The other day, Margaret forced me to buy a wallet. So, I'm no longer walking around with random cards in my pockets and misplacing certain cards. The wallet is a symbol for me pulling it together. As Margaret says, "No girl likes it when a guy buys them a dinner with a balled-up wad of bills."

Good Luck guyzz...

my lyfe n xzam weeks...

its so happens to be Im sitting for my xzam next week...
but I havent studied or even prepared anythin yet...
sitting like a dumb ass infront of my FB, I suddenly received a call...
my mobile phone rang...
I was so curious to know who was tat...
I taught tat my gal was calling as we had a small fight last nyte..
but No.. It was ma frend, Eeee...
Owh I really hate wen she calls, yiu guyz wanna know why??.. bcoz,
I hardly even understand her language... She has a slang of her own Penang mother tongue..
But yet I manage to chat wif her over the phone..
I tried my best to understand myself... (without any1's help :()
As I knew a few words she told me...
She said tat she wasn't sure what to read for the xzams...
Then, I told her to read wateva the lecturer has taught us...
Next, I realized tat she told me about the other students who haven't completed their syllabus...
So, I told her not to bother bout them, coz itz useless, they wont b helpin us out for the answer on the xzam day...
She just nodded on da phone and ended the conversation...
Atlast, Im free from a person... I started realising tat I havent prepared for my xzam too :(
I was just about to go through the syllabus but I hardly understand a thing...
I juz dunno wat to exactly do to prepare for the xzam...
but ryte here Im sitting, doing stupido n forcing myself hard to just sit n read sumthin I dont understand... Now tats a difficult thing to do.. Well, I hope tats wat all yiu guyz (my frends who sitting for the xzams) are doing...
Newayz, take care guys n good luck (:

meminta tips kurus dari si obese 3,

dalam banyak banyak hari
aku paling takut hari cuti.
kenapa kamu tanya?..
okay mari aku berikan kamu semua satu situasi :

di unisel hari bukan cuti

breakfast
mungkin tak makan.

lunch
nasi setengah polisterin+sayur kubis setengah politerin+ satu ketul ayam (perisa random dining)

dinner
burger ayam/daging taknak mayonis and sayur lebih

aktiviti bersenam : berjogging keliling kampus waktu petang..

yer makanan aku repetetive

dekat rumah shah alam. hari cuti

breakfast
nugget.nasi lemak. nasi ayam. kuih koci. kuih karipap. burger. coklat. nasi goreng. roti canai.donut big apple. roti delifrance. roti bread story. roti mamak yang bawak motor tin tin tu.cake secret recipe. cake kedai kek desney. cake kat jusco. chicken chop. lamb chop ice cream. fish and chip. segala burger ramli. ayam tandoori. nasi campur. nasi mamak. ayam goreng. telur goreng. daging goreng. onion ring goreng. french friens goreng.satay. semua la yang goreng, bakar, rebus or kukus senang cerita. ok lagi senang semua la yang boleh masuk mulut and kunyah.

lunch
nugget.nasi lemak. nasi ayam. kuih koci. kuih karipap. burger. coklat. nasi goreng. roti canai.donut big apple. roti delifrance. roti bread story. roti mamak yang bawak motor tin tin tu.cake secret recipe. cake kedai kek desney. cake kat jusco. chicken chop. lamb chop ice cream. fish and chip. segala burger ramli. ayam tandoori. nasi campur. nasi mamak. ayam goreng. telur goreng. daging goreng. onion ring goreng. french friens goreng.satay. semua la yang goreng, bakar, rebus or kukus senang cerita. ok lagi senang semua la yang boleh masuk mulut and kunyah.

tea
nugget.nasi lemak. nasi ayam. kuih koci. kuih karipap. burger. coklat. nasi goreng. roti canai.donut big apple. roti delifrance. roti bread story. roti mamak yang bawak motor tin tin tu.cake secret recipe. cake kedai kek desney. cake kat jusco. chicken chop. lamb chop ice cream. fish and chip. segala burger ramli. ayam tandoori. nasi campur. nasi mamak. ayam goreng. telur goreng. daging goreng. onion ring goreng. french friens goreng.satay. semua la yang goreng, bakar, rebus or kukus senang cerita. ok lagi senang semua la yang boleh masuk mulut and kunyah.

dinner
nugget.nasi lemak. nasi ayam. kuih koci. kuih karipap. burger. coklat. nasi goreng. roti canai.donut big apple. roti delifrance. roti bread story. roti mamak yang bawak motor tin tin tu.cake secret recipe. cake kedai kek desney. cake kat jusco. chicken chop. lamb chop ice cream. fish and chip. segala burger ramli. ayam tandoori. nasi campur. nasi mamak. ayam goreng. telur goreng. daging goreng. onion ring goreng. french friens goreng.satay. semua la yang goreng, bakar, rebus or kukus senang cerita. ok lagi senang semua la yang boleh masuk mulut and kunyah.

supper
nugget.nasi lemak. nasi ayam. kuih koci. kuih karipap. burger. coklat. nasi goreng. roti canai.donut big apple. roti delifrance. roti bread story. roti mamak yang bawak motor tin tin tu.cake secret recipe. cake kedai kek desney. cake kat jusco. chicken chop. lamb chop ice cream. fish and chip. segala burger ramli. ayam tandoori. nasi campur. nasi mamak. ayam goreng. telur goreng. daging goreng. onion ring goreng. french friens goreng.satay. semua la yang goreng, bakar, rebus or kukus senang cerita. ok lagi senang semua la yang boleh masuk mulut and kunyah.

lepas supper ada apa?
nugget.nasi lemak. nasi ayam. kuih koci. kuih karipap. burger. coklat. nasi goreng. roti canai.donut big apple. roti delifrance. roti bread story. roti mamak yang bawak motor tin tin tu.cake secret recipe. cake kedai kek desney. cake kat jusco. chicken chop. lamb chop ice cream. fish and chip. segala burger ramli. ayam tandoori. nasi campur. nasi mamak. ayam goreng. telur goreng. daging goreng. onion ring goreng. french friens goreng.satay. semua la yang goreng, bakar, rebus or kukus senang cerita. ok lagi senang semua la yang boleh masuk mulut and kunyah.

aktiviti bersenam : tengok movie sambil makan popcorn

wif kengkawan!...

this is Jay....
and kenapa shah alam buli aku dengan makanan nikmat dunia?

boriiinngggg... WATSOEVA :(

today is called Monday...
but I wonder wat day..
such a boringg day...
nothing much to do today..
juz creating rhymez for today...
in Bloggerz I'll be here today...
saying wat I feel all the day..
ther's neva an end of the day..

:(

A wedding trip to Rawang... :)

4th Jully 2009...

The day started wit a surprise pain in my stomach early mornin as though Im having gastric problem... It gave me a pain of alarm to wake up in the mornin.. As I counldnt sleep any more, I woke up in order to go through the hard lyfe of tat day... It was around 10.30pm, wen I started to receive calls frm my fwenzz about the trip to A Wedding in Rawang...
My lecturers are getting married today...
da xcitement was such tat I was so hapie n cant wait to go enjoy maself wit fwenzz in Rawang...
I became so curious on wat to wear.. I suggest to wear black and prefer all my fwenzz to wear black too... Like a big group posing a black figure... But yet there were unsatisfied of wearing black frm some of my fwenzz.. The reason I choose black was, smart lookin, coverup thick fleshes, nite wedding n best attire for the day...
Well, I was searching for the best black outfit in my cupboard n found a striking, shiny, bling2 black shirt wit those pair of suitable pants...
My day was juz fine untill I was receiving this SMS frm my frend saying tat this gal who's driving us to the wedding will b late cuz of sum unawoidable traffic problum...
I accepted the fact tat she'll b late n yet prepared maself... We all together r supposed to meet at a place called McD a.k.a Mc Donalds... McD was alwayzz the place for us to meet up... It has been a tradition frm our fwenzz since generation hhaahahahhaaa.. There, we were all soon gathered up.. Oneby one reached by following their own sweet tyme... Finally at 6.30pm, all reached at the spot smoothly xcept for tis 1 particular gal who's gonna drive us all the way to Rawang.. She's having a bad day driving through the traffic.. Poor gal :( and on the other side, we were all impatiently waiting for these particular gal for about 1 hour...
She has been keeping intouch wit me all through tat hours in the traffic... She muz have been damn terrified but finally she made it... YAHOOOOOO... She reached McD at 7.30pm...
It was really bad tyming... I can already sense tat were gonna have a hard tyme finding the place over there... And YES we do... There were 6 of us in PEUGEOT... WOW!.. tat was really an amazing xperience...
We really had a great tyme finding the place... It started frm Rawang and all the way to Sungai Buloh back to the highway followby the roads of monkeyz n full of haunted houses...
This trip was not really like a wedding trip... It trun up to be a backpacking trip to the mountains of hell... And me who dressed up all like goin for a wedding function... tat was DAMN WEIRD... There was this place we came, it was called sum Kampung area where people started staring at us like Zombies.. Tat was wat really scares me to hell... I juz dunno why... They juz keep staring n looking at us like they wanna eat us up... AS IF WE WERE SUM DISH LIKE A ROASTED CHICKEN or sumthin... I was juz trying my best to laugh at this frend of mine "Ruff" who's trying making jokes nonstop to handle the situation.... I was juz controlling my fear frm all my fwenz in the car which happens to be all galzz...
I know I was damn lucky at tat moment surrounded by lotz of cute galzz but I didnt like the
environment n the situation tat much... The lucky thing was, my lap was been shared by tis poor gal who neva had place to sit in the car... hhaahahahahaa.. now tat was really cool! :)
As we were travelling all over Rawang like a roller coaster which neva endzz, finally around 10.45pm, we managed to find the place... Now tat I would like to say sumthin, b4 we could find da place, we were happen to be having histeria in the car... The gals were screaming at one corner, the radio was hitting the bass, my lap was so hurt, my legs cant move, I was starving to death and I was forcing maself to laugh but actually wanna cry...
The moment we reached, we was really ambarassed at first... wen we managed to get out of the car, we began to saw tat all the chairs n tables were taken away by those people wit trucks n lorrys... Finally, we knew it.. The wedding came to an end tat all are preparing to go home... I was so sadn terrified at tat tyme.. I juz dunno how to describe my feelings.. I do feel sad, funny n angry... These three main feelings came together in me at tat very moment.. I stand by the middle of the road n taught for a second... I guezz I came all the way tis far and I came to a decision tat I made myself brave to go into the wedding hall wit thick face... Far frm my vision, I saw my lecturers sister siting tiredly at the pathway side.. I went up straight and looked upon her... She was like an angel sitting there.. And YES she was... But I was yet to makesure itz not the wrong person.. so I asked her if she was my lectuer's sister n she said yes.. we even know each other very well in FB.. I was even more surprised when she called up my famous nickname... Well, she headed us to my lecturers hse..
We took all the tiredless effort to go to my lecturers hse.. It was a great pleasure meeting the couples there... They looked really great as if they were made up for each other... :)
I wished congratzz n handover the presentzz to each of them... They were apparently shocked to see us... even the whole family was shocked to see us tat nite... it was late nite n they were yet wondering on us...
It was around 11.30pm wen we left the hse... we were in a hurry back home too... On our way back home, I realised tat the way going home was tat damn easy than going to the wedding...
Well, I managed to knock off in the car n neva realised anythin until we reached a place...
I was planning to scream "BYE RAWANG" in the middle of the nite in the car on the way going home but my instinct stopped me... hhhahhahaaahahahhaa.. I guezz tiz will b the first n the last visit to Rawang for a wedding...
Anywayzz, all those sweet, sad, angry n bitter memoriez remainz foreva in my mind.. It cant be forgotten easily nor erased everything... This memorable Wedding Trip To Rawang will alwayz be in our minds wen were having a laughter or angry momentz...

So, to all you guyz out there, tis will be a good xperience for us...
take care guyz..
alwayzz laugh lotz..
bye!

Did you pig out at the cookout? 6 Food fixes that beat bloat fast!

Lately I’m all about what to eat (as opposed to what not to eat) to look and feel great, and I’m also all about enjoying myself on vacation. So this July 4th weekend, go ahead and have that burger, beer, macaroni salad and whatever else is on the menu at your mid-summer fete, and then make the necessary diet adjustments AFTER the party. Here, 6 simple swaps that will help you lose a little water weight and keep calories in check:

1) Season Food Without Salt

Smart Swap: Add zing to your meals with salt-free seasoning blends such as the Original and Italian medley Mrs. Dash instead of salt, salt-based seasonings, and highly processed foods. The reason? You may be attracted to your saltshaker, but water is, too. When you take in higher than usual amounts sodium, you’ll temporarily retain more fluid, contributing to that sluggish feeling, a puffy appearance, and extra water weight. Yuck.

Get your sexy summer body and your confidence back!

2) Thirsty? Stick to plain H20

Smart Swap: There's nothing like a nice cold carbonated beverage when you're hot and thirsty but plain old tap water is a better way to stay hydrated—those tingly bubbles just end up in your belly, causing it to puff out more.

Try these simple, belly-flattening beverage alternatives

3) Up the protein, lower the carbs

Smart Swap: Use one slice of whole grain bread for your sandwich at lunch instead of two, and swap snacks like pretzels for nuts or seeds. At dinner, try to stick to lean protein sources and, if you must have a carb, try something made with whole grains like quinoa or brown rice. Unless you’re running a marathon this weekend, loads of high-carb foods like bagels, bread, pasta, pretzels, and cereal will just boost bloat. The science-y reason: as a backup energy source, your muscles store a type of carbohydrate called glycogen, and every gram of glycogen is stored with about 3 grams of water. But unless you have a vigorous exercise routine, you don't need all this stockpiled fuel. When you decrease the carbs, you'll temporarily train your body to access this stored fuel and burn it off. At the same time, you'll drain off excess stored fluids.

Get loads of healthy warm-weather recipes and meal ideas!

4) Cook your veggies

Smart Swap: Eat veggies, just eat them cooked—steaming is quick and easy. Fruit is gorgeous and plentiful right now so indulge in moderation. When you’re trying to watch your weight it may be temping to fill up on a grapes, but if you want a flat belly filling it with all that volume is counter-productive: A half-cup serving of cooked carrots delivers the same nutrition as one cup raw, but it takes up less room in your GI tract. The same goes for fresh fruits: Compare the size of a few grapes to a few raisins. Big difference! While you’re at it skip those notorious gas-causers like broccoli and cauliflower and cook up green beans, mushrooms, and squash—which is bountiful right now anyway.

5) Season food with belly-friendly flavors

Smart swap: some people love their food four-alarm spicy (I’m one of them)! Feel the heat for one night, then lay off the barbecue sauce and garlic for a few days while debloating. Give dishes a flavor boost with in-season fresh or dried herbs like dill, basil, mint, sage, tarragon, and rosemary. You can also use curry powder, lemon or lime juice—all perfect with fish or chicken. Try to avoid Black pepper, nutmeg, cloves, Chili powder, hot sauces, onions, garlic, mustard, barbecue sauce, horseradish, catsup, tomato sauce, vinegar; Spicy foods can stimulate the release of stomach acid, which can cause irritation.

Spice up your dinner with these delicious, 30-minute chicken recipes

6) Satisfy an oral fixation with seeds, not gum

Smart Swap: If you chew gum by habit or just like to bite down on something crunchy, reach for some nuts, like roasted or raw unsalted sunflower seeds. You probably don't realize this, but when you chew gum, you swallow air. All that air gets trapped in your GI tract and causes pressure, bloating, and belly expansion—none of which are swimsuit-friendly.

8 Toxic personalities to avoid.... check it out :))

Here are the worst of the toxic personalities out there and how to spot them:

1. Manipulative Mary: These individuals are experts at manipulation tactics. Is a matter of fact, you may not even realize you have been manipulated until it is too late. These individuals figure out what your 'buttons' are, and push them to get what they want.

* Why they are toxic: These people have a way of eating away at your belief system and self-esteem. They find ways to make you do things that you don't necessarily want to do and before you know it, you lose your sense of identity, your personal priorities and your ability to see the reality of the situation. The world all of a sudden becomes centered around their needs and their priorities.

2. Narcissistic Nancy: These people have an extreme sense of self-importance and believe that the world revolves around them. They are often not as sly as the Manipulative Marys of the world, but instead, tend to be a bit overt about getting their needs met. You often want to say to them "It isn't always about you."

* Why they are toxic: They are solely focused on their needs, leaving your needs in the dust. You are left disappointed and unfulfilled. Further, they zap your energy by getting you to focus so much on them, that you have nothing left for yourself.

3. Debbie Downers: These people can't appreciate the positive in life. If you tell them that it is a beautiful day, they will tell you about the impending dreary forecast. If you tell them you aced a mid-term, they'll tell you about how difficult the final is going to be.

* Why they are toxic: They take the joy out of everything. Your rosy outlook on life continues to get squashed with negativity. Before you know it, their negativity consumes you and you start looking at things with gray colored glasses yourself.

4. Judgmental Jim's: When you see things as cute and quirky, they see things as strange and unattractive. If you find people's unique perspectives refreshing, they find them 'wrong'. If you like someone's eclectic taste, they find it 'disturbing' or 'bad'.

* Why they are toxic: Judgmental people are much like Debbie Downers. In a world where freedom rings, judgment is sooo over. If the world was a homogeneous place, life would be pretty boring. Spending a lot of time with these types can inadvertently convert you into a judgmental person as well.

5. Dream Killing Keiths: Every time you have an idea, these people tell you why you can't do it. As you achieve, they try to pull you down. As you dream, they are the first to tell you it is impossible.

* Why they are toxic: These people are stuck in what is instead of what could be. Further, these individuals eat away at your self-esteem and your belief in yourself. Progress and change can only occur from doing new things and innovating, dreaming the impossible and reaching for the stars.

6. Insincere Illissas: You never quite feel that these people are being sincere. You tell a funny story, they give you a polite laugh. You feel depressed and sad and they give you a 'there, there' type response. You tell them you are excited about something and you get a very ho-hum response.

* Why they are toxic: People who aren't sincere or genuine build relationships on superficial criteria. This breeds shallow, meaningless relationships. When you are really in need of a friend, they won't be there. When you really need constructive criticism, they would rather tell you that you are great the way you are. When you need support, they would rather see you fail or make a fool of yourself.

7. Disrespectful Dannys: These people will say or do things at the most inappropriate times and in the most inappropriate ways. In essence, they are more subtle, grown up bullies. Maybe this person is a friend who you confided in and uses your secret against you. Maybe it is a family member who puts their busy-body nose into your affairs when it is none of their business. Or maybe, it is a colleague who says demeaning things to you.

* Why they are toxic: These people have no sense of boundaries and don't respect your feelings or, for that matter, your privacy. These people will cause you to feel frustrated and disrespected.

8. Never Enough Nellies: You can never give enough to these people to make them happy. They take you for granted and have unrealistic expectations of you. They find ways to continually fault you and never take responsibility for anything themselves.

* Why they are toxic: You will spend so much time trying to please them, that you will end up losing yourself in the process. They will require all of your time and energy, leaving you worn out and your own needs sacrificed.

All of these personalities have several things in common. 1) the more these people get away with their behavior, the more they will continue. 2) Unfortunately, most of these people don't see that what they do is wrong and as a result, talking to them about it will fall on deaf ears, leaving you wondering if you are the crazy one. 3) Most of these people get worse with age, making their impact on you stronger with time.

Frankly, life is too short to spend your time dealing with toxicity. If you can, avoid spending much of time with people who are indicative of these behaviors and you'll feel a lot happier.

worlds most embarrasing moments ....

There was a World wide survey of "Most Embarrassing Moment in human life"

the finale had the following three incidents....

Third Place

"It was the day before my eighteenth birthday. I was living at home, but my parents had gone out for the evening, so I invited my girlfriend over for a romantic night alone. As we lay in bed after making love, we heard the telephone ringing downstairs. I suggested to my girlfriend that I give her a piggy-back ride to the phone. Since we didn't want to miss the call, we didn't have time to get dressed. When we got to the bottom of the stairs, the lights suddenly came on and a whole crowd of people yelled "SURPRISE!".

My entire family, aunts, uncles, grandparents, cousins and all of my friends were standing there ! My girlfriend and I were frozen to the spot in a state of shock and embarrassment for what seemed like an eternity.

Since then, no-one in my family has planned a surprise party again

Second Place

"While in line at the bank one afternoon, my kid decided to release some pent-up energy and started to run amuck. I was finally able to grab hold of her after receiving looks of disgust and annoyance from other patrons. I told her that if she didn't start behaving herself right now, she would be punished. To my horror, she looked me in the eye and said in a voice just as threatening, "If you don't let me go right now, I will tell Grandma that I saw you kissing Daddy's pee-pee(dick) last night!".

The silence was deafening after this enlightening exchange. Even the tellers stopped what they were doing! I mustered the last of my dignity and walked out of the bank with my daughter in tow. The last thing that I heard as the door closed behind me were the screams of laughter.

And the Winner is...

This one actually happened at Harvard University in October last year.

In a biology class, the professor was discussing the high glucose levels found in semen. A young female (freshman), raised her hand and asked, "If I understand what you are saying, there is a lot of glucose in male semen, as in sugar?" "That's correct." responded the professor, going on to add much statistical data. Raising her hand again, the sweet young thing asked, "Then why doesn't it taste sweet?".

After a stunned silence, the whole class burst out laughing, the poor girl turned bright red and as she realized exactly what she had inadvertently said(or rather implied), she picked up her books without a word and walked out of the class, and never returned.

However , as she was going out of the door, the professor's reply was a classic. Totally straight- faced, he answered her question, "It doesn't taste sweet because the taste-buds for sweetness are on the tip of your tongue and not in the back of your throat!

******

feeling bored??... wanna have sum fun??... check it out :)

Dear Friends,

To all my dearest friends out there, I would like to plan out a summer camp among friends who would love to take part in it... Me and sum bunch of my close friends have been deciding to have sum fun lately going camping this coming 19, 20 and 21 May... So if you members out there are interested to join the club, plz give me a cal or even sms me anything to 0193552246(my mobile) or (Caxton)0123883992 ... OK the thing is, if you wanna have fun you sure have to spend for it, so me n sum of my friends suggest that RM 10 is required to spend for the camping... This money is not for me or anyone, its for the camping itself... The money is used for those listed reasons:

1. to buy food for living in the jungle. (need to do shopping for that)
2. for the rental of the house we're gonna stay.
3. the fun and enjoyment at the park. (ex. cycling or fishing.)
4. using the swimming pool. (charge RM 2 per person)
5. traveling by bus for side seeing.

Well, the venue will be at Taman Bukit Cahaya Seri Alam, situated in Shah Alam, Section 8, Selangor, Darul Ehsan... Why these place was chosen is because there are so many things to see and do here that you need more than a day to do it justice. There are many species of birds and animals that reside here. Among them are Kingfishers, Magpies, Peacocks, Squirrels and Monkeys. Though shy, these residents will not fail to amaze you with their day-to-day activities of food hunting and mating habits.

The best way to see what this huge Agricultural Park has to offer is by bicycle, which can be rented here. Cycling up and down the hills, passing through beautiful lakes that decorate the Park is an exhilarating experience itself. As cars and motorbikes are not allowed in the Park (except for those who stay overnight in one of the chalets in the Park), many of its attractions are accessible by the in-house bus service and bicycles for hire. Food and beverage stalls are located in every Garden and rustic timber chalets provide accommodation in the Traditional and Cultural Villages, and the Rest House area. If you prefer the great outdoors, campsites with barbecue facilities are available at Camar Rimba.

So if you guyz r interested, plz leave a message, comment or even sms me as I have given the number above and the date has also been informed above... And if you members are fine with the fee, than having sum fun wont be a problum... There are no age limits, no racists, no same sexs... Itz opened to all and whoever wanna join.. Juz keep intounch with me.. The more people the merrier it will be... hhehehhe :)

Until then, take care you all n have a great day ahead :)


-Jay-

itzz 25 stuffs about me... hhahhahhahahha :)

(*;*)those 25 random stuffs bout me.... hhmmmmmmm lets see...


1~ I eat tacos with a fork.
2~ I was fat in middle school. The wake of that horror has yet to subside.
3~ I keep forgetting that Najib Razak is our Prime Minister.
4~ I have been pooped on by a monkey.
5~ I am addicted to the ass-slap dance move.
Sometimes I don't even notice I'm doing it.
6~ I eat gummy bears by tearing them limb from limb and eating their heads last.
7~ I can't grow hair on my tummy.
8~ Two of my best friends are under five feet tall and I have an intense fear of midgets.
9~ I think yoga is incredibly spiritual. I know the Lord is with me in my downward dog.
10~ I like to tape my thumbs to my hands to see what it would be like to be a dinosaur.
11~ I don't believe in democracy(use to believe once...).
12~ I cried when Princes Diana died in the year 1997.
13~ I drink two glasses of wine every night before bed. Wait, did I just admit to alcoholism?
14~ If you asked me to tell you my favorite movie, I would have a hard time not saying Titanic.
15~ I don't understand what people see in the Godfather trilogy.
16~ Sometimes I think pee smells like Cheerios.
17~ I often start grieving things long before I’ve actually lost them (or left them).
18~ I never know what to say when people ask me what kind of music I like.
19~ I have an over-developed sense of guilt. I don't know why. I've tried to figure it out and get over it, but nothing's worked so far.
20~ The manliest thing I do is grill. I love grilling stuff. I'd grill breakfast cereal if I could figure out how.
21~ I think believing in God makes doing the right thing less noble.
22~ I think the most attractive part of the human body is the eyezz.
23~ The perfect spot I love to go and spend my time is the beach... beside the sea.
24~ It’s difficult for me to remember to wear underwear.
25~ I love talking to babies..



I have a lot to describe but 25 was the only limit required... hhehehheheh :D

Sumthin' special for my mommy :)

Angel Food Cake for Your Angel(Mommy) :)

A couple of weeks ago I began to imagine the angel food cake I would make for Mother's Day, a sort of homage to the angel in my life, a light and airy labor of love flecked with chocolate bits. I’d made one angel food cake in my life. I was in high school, it was for Valentine's Day and my brother gets half the blame. It was made with the requisite dozen egg whites, the signature ingredient for a light and airy angel cake. Ours might have been tasty, but nobody remembers. What is remembered about that particular cake – and you know the story has been retold a thousand times - is that it required a sharp knife to cut each bite and it was chewy, maybe a little chewier than God intended for her/his Angel Food Cake. That cake was a tough cookie. Do not mess with her!

Umpteen years later I thought I would try again. I’ve learned to cook, done a little baking, it would be perfect for Mother’s Day, my mother would think me an angel for making something angelic for her . . . I’m on it.

Besides, I have the perfect pan. A couple of years ago my mom was ready to dump her vintage angel food cake pan and vintage gets me every time. Because I have so much room for stuff like that in my uncluttered basement, and haven’t baked an angel food cake since high school, it made perfect sense for me to take it off her hands. It’s taken cover in the basement ever since.

I wanted the angel food cake to be flecked with melted morsels of chocolate and tried to find a recipe for that - I’m sure it’s been done. I couldn’t find one so decided to wing it, add finely chopped chocolate with the dry ingredients and cross my fingers.

Here it is along with suggestions for improving the next one (more chocolate). Family loved it though they know perfectly well I’m no angel.

Chocolate was the *improvisation, otherwise I used the following recipe from Gourmet.com. I chopped up some favorite chocolate until it was in fine bits (you could also put it in a grinder or blender for a quick whirl). After the chopping, measure 3/4 cup and set aside. Add more if you dare. I added 1/2 cup and felt more would have been better.

Ingredients:
1 ½ C egg whites (11 – 12 large eggs) A dozen beautiful eggs from Stoney Plains Organic Farm
1 ½ C sifted confectioners sugar (sift before measuring)
1 C sifted cake flour (non-self rising; again, sift before measuring)
¼ t salt
1 ½ t cream of tartar
1 C granulated sugar
1 t vanilla

Equipment: 1 10-inch tube pan w/ a removable bottom. Do not grease or flour.

Let egg whites stand in bowl of a standing electric mixer at room temperature about 1 hour before making cake. (They should be about 60°F, slightly below room temperature.)
Set oven rack in lower third of oven and preheat oven to 350°F.
Sift together confectioners sugar, flour, and salt onto a sheet of wax paper using a triple sifter or fine sieve.
Beat whites in mixer until frothy. Add cream of tartar and beat at medium speed until they form soft peaks. Add granulated sugar gradually, beating, and continue beating just until whites are thickened and form soft, droopy peaks. Beat in vanilla.

Sprinkle one fourth of sifted dry ingredients over whites and fold in with a rubber spatula gently but thoroughly. Fold in remaining dry ingredients, one third at a time. (*This is where I added the chocolate; include it with the dry ingredients and fold in.)Gently pour batter evenly into ungreased tube pan and bake until top is light golden, cake retracts a bit from pan and springs back when touched lightly, and a tester comes out clean, 40 to 45 minutes. Invert pan onto neck of an empty wine bottle or a large metal funnel and cool cake completely.

To remove cake from pan, run tip of a long, narrow knife between outer edge of cake and pan. Tilt cake pan on its side and gently tap bottom edge against counter. Rotate pan, tapping and turning a few more times, until cake appears free. Cover pan with a metal rack or cardboard round and invert, tapping pan firmly to loosen cake. Lift pan from cake. (It should come out beautifully, like a pillow taken out of a slipcover.)

Drizzle a thin chocolate frosting over the whole thing, serve with whipped cream and fruit, or just go with the cake, plain and simple. And then you face the problem of the abandoned egg yolks. The bowlful is a constant reminder of something you now don’t know what to do with and you hate to waste. A few possibilities: I added one to potato latches the other night; added two to Italian meatballs; made a batch of Caesar salad dressing using two more. Classic Pound Cake, which I’ve never made in my life, requires egg yolks. Yolks are an efficient thickener to sauces, but you have to be careful not to scramble them. What else? Happy Mother’s Day :)

To all mothers in the world... :)

One day, a young boy asked his mom.
"Why are you crying?"
"Because I'm a woman" she told him.
"I don't understand," he said.
His Mom just hugged him and said, "And you never will, but that's okay."
Later the little boy asked his father, "Why does mom seem to cry for no reason?"
"All women cry for no reason" was all his dad could say.
The little boy grew up and became a man, still wondering why women cry finally, he put in a call to God.
When God got back to him, he asked, "God, why do women cry so easily?'' God answered, "When I made women, I decided she had to be special.
I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world, yet her arms gentle nough to give comfort.
I gave her the inner strength to endure childbirth and the rejection that many times will come, even from her own children.
I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going and take care of her family and friends, even when everyone else gives up, through sickness and fatigue, without complaining.
I gave her sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances even when her child has hurt her badly. She has the very special power to make a child's boo-boo feel better and to quell a teenager's anxieties and fears.
I gave her strength to care for her husband, despite faults, and I fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart.
I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife but some times tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly.
For all of this hard work, I also gave her a tear to shed, It is her's to use whenever needed and is her only weakness."
"When you see her cry, tell her how much u love her and all she does for everyone. And even though she may still cry, you will have made her heart feel good."


HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY :)